Small boy's reaction to false abandon ment

We were at the park,a all 3 babies,  but the other 2 were on different plane level to small boy. I gave the other 2 more attention.
Later, we packed to head home, I left small boy, with the other 2 ready to go.

 Small boy's reaction became frantic, he must have had thought why he did not get in the bag too with the others.

 I went back to pick him up, in fact, I never once left.

He jumped away towards the area where I could not  reach for him.

Waiting, I had hoped he wld come back , but instead he stayed behind, unwilling to budge.

 I tried to catch hold of him, but he wld conviently escape from my palms.

 In the end, I went into his den and pulled him out, of cause he was resisting.

 He was testing me out too,

 he wanted me to verify that I still love him and want him around.

 That, I realised and gently cajoled him.

 He was finally at ease and sat calmly without moving at all on my forearms

.I learned he was affected when I suddenly left him on purpose to see how he would react.

We need affirmative actions and words

I have seen my babies asking, requesting, playing hide and seek to get my attention and affection. They love the individual time together. We bond and share the time looking at each other, knowing we are there present for each other. If  our pets need it, how much more do we need it too......

When it is Love

Clearly, the meaning of love begins with the relationship of a mother to her child,
what that feeling of meaning, safety, belonging to one another,
bonds their relationship together, close, depending on one another for being alive.
The child then moves on and remembers the feeling and what it means to feel wanted, needed, held, precious, important.
This goes on in life when this experience is recalled when one has no one to depend on, except oneself.
Where there are more demands, human weaknesses clamouring for attention, lies and truth often merge together, blurring the eyes of hope, leaving disappointment, anger, perplexity, undue worries, and sickness.
This is the time to remember that you are loved, if not had a experience of being held, understood, loved, and looked upon as precious.

Because of my babies, my soul has been altered, to love, overcome, to nuture, to be patient.

Spending time
The competition between the 2 boys are incredibly interesting to watch. They both long to be first and center of my attention. They seek to outdo each other.

Walking and talking with girl.
She has the habbit of nipping at me when  I talk to others, I had to let her know it was not right and allowed her to participate in the conversation. When given the chance, she seemed to be happy to sit and be part of the conversation without any disturbance.

Reaching for his potential

I am beginning to see that small boy is good with senior citizens. His patience, sweetness, gentleness is admirable.
His social skills are getting better.
He seems to like company.....
It is a pity if he just sits home, his purpose and potential could be more....
Thank you Lord for his gift.
Thank you for allowing me to discover his gift! Amen

trust

Thank you baby for letting me near your teeth that can cut deeply and can love deeply as well, a kind of trust, a feeling of freedom, to challenge the impossible and risk of being bitten. It is a big step to put myself open to the wonder of trust, intuitive communication, allowing self to be touch, felt, heard, connected. To feel your energy, spirit and warmth. Indeed, it is a privilege to  have the courage to be under a open den, a mystery and a consolation and encouragement, challenging the boundaries of safety, love, trust, connection and intimacy with another soul and spirit.

Small boy

You came into my life 1half years ago, frail, delicate, innocent, simple, does not fight back, no concept of what danger, jealousy, power, pain is all about.

From that moment, I knew I had to keep an eye on you because of your gentle, meek, forgiving nature, never getting mad at someone or something for more than 5 minutes.

Thank you for your presence in my life.

Love and Obedience

Just like love and obedience, rather fear and obedience.
As to purpose to wake in the morning is not a duty but a calling into doing something that drives you to wholesomeness.
Not rigid, arid, undisciplined.
Yet, gentle, patience, small steps helps to develop one's inner nature to want to thrive and be happy.
Firm but kind, knowing when to calm a restless, aimless spirit.
When to be firm and let go.
How to balance one's self with inner contradictions that pull poles apart.
The blissful mind having not to wrestle with obsessions and fears.
The anchored soul with hope and not give in to darkness.
Once more, is another day!

Friends of babies 2014

In loving memory of Tobit 2008-2012

This Spirit here is a piece of Art, deep soul and surrenders, strong, gentle, the one whom melted my heart

Simplicity

BB does not need the right way to be treated to love u.
He does not suspect stangers,
He is most transparent and gentle.
A spirit of acceptance and lovingly excited with life.
He never questions whether he will be taken care of.
He just be.

Small boy

They read thoughts and feelings

I think my babies has the best stream of thoughts and
 would go by slower than my rate of talking,
 but enough to get the information they need,
 without rushing for information like I do.
They are silent in my world, but in the realm of the intuitive world,
they are more alert, sensitive towards the coming and going.
They respond according ly to my thought waves.
Catching hold of my intentions and feelings,
they are sensitive to subtleties and do not lie,
they know exactly and precisely the moment to respond.

My princess

Small Boy
As we were walking along to the MRT, I became playful, took small boy from the basket, squeezed him with my neck, made sounds. To my amazement, he returned the gesture by licking my neck, and nipping on my ear. He was practically standing on shoulders. It was rather an experience to be assured.

Friends

Look what we got at the park,
a baby cat, lying underneath the round about.
Happy to notice something different,  saw a creature, wondering what it was, and what it was doing there.
A bit of hissing, a bit of meowing to call for attention, no response from small boy, who laid above the catty.
Prompted by my motherly instincts, I grabbed hold of small boy on time.
Sad, the catty lost a friend, went underneath the slides and took its nap.
The catty was actually looking for some company, came over and lie on his top, opened himself up.
But, I was not ready to receive him.
He later, found the courage to climb up a few steps to watch smallboy.
Small boy whom never fought or fought back in his entire life, would I risk him being having been..... So, sorry Catty, hope you don't mind me.

Grabbing into veggs! Without permission!

A interesting question for me!

Why is he so calmed??????

Our time at the playground

Our time at the playground

I always thought it would be impossible
 to bring the 2 extroverts babies out,
 after a day out before not long ago.
What I discovered was not at all what I thought it to be.
They liked it in the park on top of the slide, pathway where no one could reach for them.
They groomed each other there, explored the area, sat and enjoyed the cool breeze.
Guessed how they would behave in a totally new area, space.
I rather liked our time, as I could sit at a looking distance, yet without loosing sight of them.
There, they would meet new friends and exposed to the different kind of sounds.
Since, I had my garden set up, it would be impossible to have them around at home,
I never thought it would be possible to bring them to different spaces and to be able to meet different people.
Enriched by my experience being their mummy, nanny.